Day 2: 28-Day Meditation Challenge: We Breathe
Welcome to Day 2. If you've just arrived, just learned about this Challenge—no worries!—you're not late. There's plenty of time to begin. We start where we are. Please start now.
If you've followed my work over the years, you know that I am a big fan of "starting over." In fact, the ninth Transformational Truth in my book, Your Truest Self, proposes exactly that:
"I Can Create My Life Anew Each Day"
So each day we come here, even if we have not meditated as we'd hoped, we begin again.
We connect with our breath.
The breath, no matter what spiritual tradition you embrace, is the centerpoint of most contemplative practices, especially meditation.
I first learned about the power of the breath when I was 21 (I'm now 56) and in college, in my very first yoga class. I took it to get a PE credit. I had no idea at the time what I was getting into or how this course would change my life.
Our instructor coached us in conscious breathing, alternate nostril breathing, and more. I recall marveling at how my body/mind would settle down when I remembered to breathe properly, deeply, evenly, from my belly. I fell in love with my breath.
Today, I still love the breath and its ability to calm and center me. I view this breath as sacred. It is not simply an influx of oxygen. It is a divine connection to my own spirit and the greater Spirit—or God.
When I began to understand the origin of the word "breath," when I began to realize that nearly every religious (and spiritual) tradition the world over connected the breath with the spirit or soul, I experienced a monumental shift in consciousness. I experienced another when I learned that there were hundreds of creation stories in various traditions that were based on a life giving deity breathing life into humankind.
The Hebrew word for "spirit" is ruach, and ruach can also mean "breath" or "wind." In other languages, as well, the word for spirit is also the word for breath. In Latin, spiritus. In Sanskrit, pragna. In Greek, pneuma.
At times, when I am attending to my breath consciously for the purposes of relaxation or meditation, I even imagine that the Divine One, The All, the Universe (by whatever name you choose to call the Sacred) is breathing through me ... Breathing sacred air into my nostrils, down into my lungs, permeating all the organs and muscles, oxygenating my blood with life and calm and holy connection.
Sometimes, as I breathe, I even say, 'God is breathing me.' And it truly feels like it ...
Today, no matter what meditation form you choose, or if you are just walking mindfully through your day, return to your breath. It will predictably bring you back to center. Breathing in, feel the sacred source of this breath and how it keeps you alive day-to-day. Breathing out, feel how you spread this gift out into the world. Without your breath, you are not here. You are not alive. This breath is life-giving, life-affirming. This breath will bring you home to yourself.
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Let's take a moment to check in.
How are you doing with the Challenge? I know it's only Day 2, but I am eager to hear about your successes and challenges, as are many others. Keep us posted, OK?
Love and blessings to you this day,
Jan
Read on ...
From Where I Sit — Day 2, My Meditation ExperienceI awoke early from a bad dream. I immediately went to my breath to calm and center myself. Within a few minutes, I experienced waves of warmth and comfort wash over me.
My attention moved to my husband, laying beside me. I treasure this man. Every morning I offer a prayer of gratitude for his presence in my life. I snuggled in a little closer and turned this prayer into a few minutes of gratitude meditation.
After he got up to start his day (usually I get up with him), I chose to stay in bed and continue meditating. I lay on my back, placed my hand on my belly, and felt my breath moving in and out. I had no other thoughts except the divine awareness of breathing in - breathing out.
"Inner peace is mine, one breath at a time."
I lost track of time. It was a lovely meditation morning and I arose to begin my"Morning Infusion." If you like, you can read a bit more about this routine here. I will be posting more on the benefits of a contemplative morning soon.
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Recommended Resources:
If you are new to meditation, you might enjoy reading this article from the Chicago Tribune: "5 Tips to Better Meditation."
If you are an experienced meditator, it's always wise to revisit tried and true resources. Last night I picked up Peace is Every Step by Thich Nhat Hanh—for the umpteenth time. This book could be a bible for mindfulness. I found myself reading (and remembering!) about mindful driving and mindful dishwashing. It reminds me that everything belongs ...
And if you'd like to refresh yourself by watching/listening to Thich Nhat Hanh "live," click here.
Seek and you shall find.
Inspiration:
Sitting Anywhere
When you need to slow down and come back to yourself, you do not need to rush home to your meditation cushion or to a meditation center in order to practice conscious breathing. You can breathe anywhere, just sitting on your chair at the office or sitting in your automobile. Even if you are at a shopping center filled with people or waiting in line at a bank, if you begin to feel depleted and need to return to yourself, you can practice conscious breathing and smiling just standing there.
~Thich Nhat Hanh, from Peace is Every Step



36 comments:
Well, today is really Day One for me. I'm tardy getting started...my modus operandi of late, it would seem.
Nevertheless, Today I was awakened at 5:30am with a painful back spasm. I've been dealing with this now for about 4 days, so I lay there and tried a number of things to release it, including prayer.
I finally considered that this pain was there to draw my attention to something. The spasm happens to be situated between my shoulder blades in the area where my Heart chakra is. I have a few ideas of what it may be pointing to, but nothing that has been profound enough to clear it up. I'll continue to look at that and probe a little deeper to see if I can reach an understanding.
I'm a big proponent of breathing, and it's something I seem to do instinctually when I feel a need to calm and centre myself. I found myself breathing more consciously while I read your post.
xo
Carolynn
Dear Jan, I have been keeping meditation at the forefront of my mind the last week especially since your challenge! I love this post so much and it truly resonates with me! I have always been a 'shallow' breather and it will take practice for me to really 'breathe in more life' for my lungs, my health and most of all for my spirit which seems to be the last to receive any of it at times. So, this is my takeaway for today that is so sacred and feels right! ;) I also wanted to share with you that I had an amazing meditation awakening today - as I brought out my favorite meditation book by Jon Kabat-Zinn - Wherever You Go, There You Are and the mountain meditation found me before I even got to the page; and I looked at it in such a new light this time, I was spellbound, and thoroughly renewed! I'd be willing to share it sometime here in this series if you think it would be helpful. I look forward to your continued posts on meditation. take care, ~Jen
This is such a beautiful post, Jan.
I am breathing in God. I just put this iPhone down and let that wash over me for a few minutes. I became aware of quiet motors in the house, the fish tank , the fridge, a far-off plane. I felt a bit tense in my tummy, like I'd had too much coffee, a bit tight in my chest. I came back to my breath, listened to it. I was reminded I am a worthy person just as I am.
I feel sleepy now, of course I've been scrimping a bit on that lately. Yes, I could do with a nice warm welcoming sleep now.
I will post this and close my eyes again. Let myself drift.
xo
Carolynn,
I appreciate how you are tending to your body/mind connection to discern an emotional issue. Do you have a copy of Louise Hay's book You Can Heal Your Life? Quite amazing? Deciphers the emotional connection and body parts/ailments. Just a thought...It certainly could be heart chakra issues. (That's often where I experience it myself...)
Good to know that the post on breathing helped in some way. :-)
Sharmila,
I'm celebrating that meditation is now in the forefront for you. Me too! Yes, deep breathing is profound. In fact, I've learned (from a wise yoga teacher) that the deeper the EX-hale the better. That is the part of breathing that truly releases tension. We exhale the carbon dioxide and the muscles relax. So be sure to breathe OUT deep, too.
Why don't you e-me privately and we can talk about a contribution to the blog this month? jan@awakenedliving.com
I love Jon Zinn's work...
Jannie,
Wonderful! You could also mix up your breathing a bit (in a good way!) by adding some words to your breathing. Like: on the inhale, "God is breathing me." On the exhale, "I am breathing out peace"..."or joy." or whatever quality of the Spirit you would now like to return to the world in gratitude for YOUR life....xo
I did 2 different meditations (both short but seemed very effective).
I have a Tibetan singing bowl that I love to use. I sat for a few moments and "dinged" the side with the wooden mallet. I let the sound wash over me. It's heaven. I have not used my bowl in months and forgot how powerful and healing the sound is. I love to hold my bowl at my head and feel the sound (yes, you can actually feel the vibration). I just imagined all the negative energy breaking out of my body. I did this for about 3 minutes...told you it was short!
Then later in the day, I literally had about 5 minutes to myself. So I sat quietly on my bed with my legs crossed and my had my hands in "mudras." I took quiet a few very deep breaths and just felt everything melt away. I noticed my back...feeling awkward being so upright. I did a chakra clearing exercise where I imagined a white light filling my body...beginning at my head and going down through my body. I grounded my energy by visualizing a red cord coming out of my lower back and anchoring me to the universe. I sat there for about 5 minutes and noticed that my back began to ache less. I took a few more deep breaths and then placed my hands in namaste and gave thanks.
I do wish that I had more time to sit...but with kids and a crazy schedule...I have to take what I can get. But...I did make the effort! :)
I will say that even though the time was short...I feel really good...grounded and calm.
On day two, I did 90 minutes of Kundalini yoga, which is meditation in motion (and chanting, and breathing) ...
It was delicious, and it wrung me out, but in a good way.
Like Sharmila, I'm a shallow breather, and the result of not meditating regularly for several months is that I've forgotten how to breathe. The Kundalini practice really helped with that.
If I don't crawl in bed at 8:00 (getting used to the work/school routine again is hard!) I shall blog about it.
Yesterday (day 1) was lovely - I sat in my sitting room with the doors to the deck open (it is very warm down here in NZ!) And I just sat and let myself 'be'. (Not my usual practice - which is sitting at my altar chanting a mantra). I have a set of deep sonorous wind chimes and with a gentle breeze, there was the occasional chime which reverberated into nothingness. I let my thoughts follow the sound into stillness - it worked wonderfully.
Today, I sat again - to a different skyscape - a different day. It felt like putting on an old shoe, coming back into the stillness. I hadn't realised how much I'd missed it.
I also felt a sense of connection today - thinking there are others who enter this place (you - and the others in this circle).
A good start to my day :o)
Interesting to see that Caroline was using a singing bowl as I was using the chimes. I think as this goes on we will all find lots of connections.
"God is breathing me" I love that and will try it later today. How powerful. This is all quite new to me so the fact that I am trying is huge for me.
I found a mantra in one of my magazines yesterday so used it. It began "I feel protected and safe"...wow. That is my issue. Perhaps I've never in my life truly felt protected and safe. So, it was an emotional session for me. I had to internalize it, let go of the emotion, and then when I accepted it for myself send it to someone who has hurt me.
I knew meditation would be a powerful healing tool. I picked a person who has hurt me, and after sending this to them realized the only reason they could hurt me was because they didn't feel protected or safe. Huge. So I sent forgiveness. And that was just one day.
The rest of the mantra sat well and was "easy". I thought after such emotion how tough it would be to return, but I am comfortable with my breath, so look forward to my time today.
Thank you for this forum, a safe comfortable spot to explore a new avenue:)If my theme is "embrace" I know this process will teach me to fully embrace on many levels....
Caroline,
Thank you for sharing your progress today. Two beautiful practices. I am hopeful that your experience will invite others to explore new forms of meditative (centering) experience. It seems that you may be a very kinesthetic person, so "toning" with a bowl or using guided imagery sort of meditations with light and color would definitely be most effective. I am so glad you were able to find some peace--even in the midst of mommyhood!
Linnea,
It sounds like the spiritual warrior-ess in you emerged big time! (That is a very good thing, by the way. It refers to passion and singlemindedness of purpose. :-) A very long and intense yoga session could be so focusing, as well as cleansing. Good for you! I am applauding you onward.
Day 2 started off with me oversleeping. Didn't seem to matter, though. I was able to have my uninterrupted time with the Divine and held onto the peace most of the day. I still struggle with beginning to fall asleep while meditating, but I think that will get better in time. Love this challenge. It came at the perfect time for me. Happy meditating everyone!!
Stoneweaver,
Your nature inspired times sound wonderful. I love your statement about the second day effort feeling like an "old shoe." I just listened to a "talk" about this by a master meditation teacher. She claims that once we have created a solid foundation for meditation and had good experiences with it, even if we fall away for a time (even years) it all comes back easily--because that foundation has been laid. The chimes...lovely.
Joy,
Thank you for sharing your experience with this healing mantra. It sounds very powerful for you and oh, so timely. When I do metta, one of the lines is "May I be safe." As someone who has struggled with anxiety (a safety issue) this line has helped me move into greater ease, definitely! I do believe an ongoing meditation practice increases our self-compassion which can heal just about anything. :-) I am glad you are starting to feel the effects of this.
Jill,
Good for you to stay faithful despite the oversleeping. (Funny, we did that too this morning!) Falling asleep can ease. Those of us that get lethargic, here is a tip. Use a focal point of meditation that improves concentration. That is why a mantra is helpful or metta, which uses 4 lines (of words). These keep the mind alert. Using an image can help too. We will be talking more about these as the month goes on. Hooray for your faithfulness!
I'm and early bird and at my most active first thing in the morning so I find meditating just before bedtime suits me best. Kind of relax, unwind, end the day meditation.
I will be doing my 2nd day of the challenge pretty soon here.
Darla
It's funny that you said you woke up this morning from a bad dream...as did I!..I tried & tried and nothing would help me get back to sleep. I guess that happens sometimes. So, I finally got up & went about my day. The important part is, that I tried. Maybe I'll have more luck tomorrow. I just couldn't relax or concentrate.
Like Caroline, I used my Tibetan singing bowl (mine is very small) to begin this morning's breathing meditation, but I'd never thought to try holding it at my head to 'feel' the sound--I will try that tomorrow. I only had a few minutes, but thought that actually might be a good way to begin and was better than putting it off. Your post today added so many wonderful insights for me that I want to reread it tomorrow before I begin. I also find strength or love in knowing that there is a whole group of us doing this together. ox
oh i love this post for so many reasons, Jan... i apologize i am late to your meditation challenge...
over a year ago when i was choosing a name for my own blog/website, it occurred to me that it is the vitality of the breath i wanted to be reminded of every single time i opened my site... the name of my site is my prayer... to be reminded i am breathing in God... inviting God into every breath ... to breathe as me...
the effects of the breath on every aspect of our being are undeniable... from our bodies, to our minds, to our emotions, to our spirit... it is the focus of every major religion and meditative or prayerful practice and also part of many treatment plans for many ailments of the mind, heart and body...
and for those of us who tend to be shallow breathers, it can be one of the most challenging aspects of our practice... to continually practice our focused breathing... it sounds so simple... and it is... but as with any practice of this nature, the simplicity follows the awareness (and the awareness can be the trickiest part)...
it's wonderful to be reminded through your thoughtful post... throughout my response i am practicing... in itself a moment of meditation :)
(before i melt into my breath completely i want to remember to wish you a very happy new year ... xo
ahhh..."God is breathing me"...like the first breath breathed into the first human...neshama-soul and neshima-breath...two more interwoven Hebrew words to contemplate...the word ruach-wind/spirit is also a level of soul...WE are so totally all ONE. Breathe easy my friend.
I sometimes realize I am holding my breath when I have a lot on my mind or have a lot to do. This month I am checking in with myself regularly to make sure I am breathing in and out...and then take time for deep breathing. I feel physically better when I take time to deep breathe on a regular basis.
Thank you Jan. I have meditated for many years, but recently, I've gotten away from daily meditation. I want to bring it back and your challenge is just what I need.
Jan,
I did my meditation in the evening and there was a peace in mind after that.
It is inspiring to read others methods of meditation to learn from.
Begin everyday anew - Begin everyday anew -this was the post I did for an art challenge today.I was pleasantly surprised to see the same message reinforced here-"I Can Create My Life Anew Each Day".
Thank you,
sema
Darla,
Your end of day practice sounds delicious. I begin about 60 minutes before bed to unwind, detox from the day. Gentle activities that soothe...I sleep very well most nights as a result. I am wondering if before sleep meditation influences your dreams....
Liz,
Thank you for sharing. You DID try. Perhaps after readying the post for Day 3, it will help and provide some relief. Sometimes there are just days where nearly nothing works to calm our busy mind. A big dose of compassion helps!
Rebecca,
Another Tibetan bowl. How fun! Yes, even a few minutes of meditation can make a difference. As we develop mindfulness practices (will be posting more on that too) we bring meditative moments into our day all throughout the day. I, too, feel a lovely community and rapport building. Such wonderful ideas everyone has. :-)
Joanne,
Welcome! Your comments are a beautiful reminder of how the breath is truly a soul connection. Like you, I have experienced openness and healing on all levels (body, mind, emotions, heart, spirit) because of a breath practice. Your appreciation of your breath is marvelous to witness...Believe, breathe and be well!
Laura,
Lovely words! Yes, Ruach is one of the first mantras I ever used in meditation. I love the swirl and tone and play of it through the mouth, down the esophogus and into the heart center of the body. May your day be love and breath-filled, too!
Cindy,
Welcome. I shall add your name to the Roster. I am glad that you came and hope that what you find here will help restore your practice. Be well!
Sema,
Good for you, another evening meditator. I am glad you found peace. And thank you for sharing your site with us and this beautiful affirmation. Holy synchronicty, to be sure. :-) Blessings~
Sharon,
Great awareness to notice that you are holding your breath. Deeper breaths, deeper more consistent and gentle breaths. I tell myself this too. I find that when I get on a roll with writing, I often hold my breath. then I take deep cleansing breaths to clear and re-center. I am celebrating that you are staying faithful to this practice!
I'm so glad for the motivation to meditate. Beginning the day set a pace and tone of noticing. This afternoon we hiked a park in Englewood, FL that you may enjoy, Jan, as well when you visit this winter. It's Lemon Bay Park & Environmental Center, 570 Bay Park Blvd, Englewood. Very close to the "downtown". Nice rustic trails through scrub, trees and waterway. Bathrooms and beach area as well.
Nancy (Anonymous),
I appreciate this lead and will look it up when I get to Florida. :-) I am glad that your morning time was very meditative for you. For most of us, morning time is the best time to connect with the deeper parts of us before the day whisks us off into pressures, etc.
Jan, I love the idea that I can connect with my breath anywhere, any time. I do this in the car on my way to work, especially on day like today, when my 40 minute commute stretches to two hours. Slippery roads and traffic terrify me, but when I experience a startling moment (like today, when I slid a little too close to a BUS), I can immediately start moving to a place of calm just by conscious breathing.
I am so enjoying this challenge. :)
Joni,
I am so glad that you are enjoying this. Having somewhere to check in each day does really help, I think. It is helping me and I am creating it! Yes, the breath is key and the most portable peace. :-) Once someone has really connected with it, something shifts, and we can really trust it to center and calm us--no matter where we are. xo
Today I found a hard time trying to find the "right" time to meditate for some reason. Then I was going to do it before bed and the idea just went away with the day-to-day routine of the evening before bedtime. But for some reason I felt like I was "called" to try again in the middle of the night. I woke up at about 2:00am and was unable to fall back asleep - my thoughts were racing like horses out of a stable. So I used this opportunity to focus on my breathing and calm myself and bring myself back to a peaceful state where I was able to fall asleep. I wasn't sure if this "counted" as meditation until I re-read your blog today. Thank you again for your daily updates of your journey. I am ready for day 3 tomorrow :)
Debbie,
I'd say that what you did was perfect. You followed your intuition, settled into your breath and allowed it to lead you home -- to calm, peace, and, in your case, finally sleep. Yes, I would say this is meditation. :-)
Every time we bring ourselves back to center, to the present moment, and allow ourselves to dwell there, without judgment, just noticing what is rising and falling, what thoughts are moving in and out of our minds, this is mindfulness. This is meditation.
On to Day 3. Breathe on!
"...if you begin to feel depleted and need to return to yourself, you can practice conscious breathing and smiling just standing there." There is a Peace that comes over me when I read this. I just stopped my mind and focused on the breath and smiled. There was a weight lifted off of me. A Peace, a calm, a feeling of Light again.... Something I've needed for a while now.
I am reading your posts in order to come in comprehensively and to start my meditation, today... my day one... I'd bought myself 2 calendars for this year and one was quotes from Thich Nhat Hanh and the other Pema Chodron. Synchronicity yet again finds me...Thank you Dear Jan for doing this.... Love and Light, Nina P
Nina,
Welcome! So glad you are here with us. It does sound like a synchronistic event with the calendars, your intention, and all. May your breath continue to guide you home. And may peace be yours!
(p.s. yes, working through the past posts will help you get all caught up. :-)
Love your thoughts on meditating where you are instead of waiting to get to the "perfect" place. I had some serious monkey mind going on this morning. I wanted to go for 20 minutes, realistically thought about 10 and settled on 15. Naming my breath and focusing on one spot on my body is helping me a lot!
Hi Jan,
I was able to sit for 18 minutes today before I just let go of the fight.
I'm feeling very agitated after my meditations which made for an unpleasant day yesterday. I'm wondering if this is the result of starting something new or a byproduct of the meditating that will get better.
I know you mentioned sitting for less time, but when I sit for less time, I feel like it's not enough.
Your thoughts would be appreciated.
Jennifer
Dear Jennifer,
Well it seems like some reframing might be in order here. I hope you will gently accept this advice. Let go. It sounds if you are TRYING very hard. Especially trying to have a specific kind of result or meet a goal. If this is true, I guarantee you your ego will try and sabotage you.
True meditation is simpy about being with the experience, being with yourself, in the quiet. It is best (in the early stages of meditation) to not set a big or lengthy goal for yourself. That is why I responded yesterday as I did. Just do 5 minutes.
The problem then arises with that is the ego mind says, "That's not enough. That's not good enough." It IS enough! Meditation is not about getting somewhere or accomplishing something. Short is fine. Just bringing yourself to the cushion is enough. In our culture we are deeply habituated to feel bad about not doing something well. Meditation is not about doing it WELL but just doing it.
I am going to recommend that you jump ahead for now and read Day 5 and Day 10. I think these posts will help put this challenge of yours into perspective.
Had my second meditation session today. I was a bit distracted by my little pillow sliding on the floor...(have to get a rubber padded mat to put under, were my thoughts...ooops)But put a good effort in my breathing...which relaxed me I must say....
Simonne,
Good for you for making it to session 2. You sat and that is great. Yes, you noticed the distractions. There will always be those, but you stuck with it so this is grand. May your carry on with ease!
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