Day 4: Meditation Challenge - Feeling Frustrated? Try Lectio
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Welcome, to my 28-Meditation Challenge.
If you have joined us late, that is just fine. If you'd like to "officially" join in, simply leave a comment here that says, "I'm in!" and I will add you to the Challenge Roster. Or, send me an e-mail through the Contact Box at my website: awakenedliving.com. You may want to catch up by reading the previous posts. We are glad you are here! Each day we come here, even if we have not meditated as we'd hoped, we begin again.
After a long day at the computer yesterday, I completely surprised myself by coming back here and doing something I hadn't planned on. I spied on you.
Well, not really, sort of. I found myself backtracking, clicking on your links—those that are posted in the Meditation Challenge roster (see right column) and through your comments. I went to your blog sites and read what you are doing. WOW!
I was amazed ... humbled ... and teary with gratitude to learn that so many of you are really taking the Challenge seriously. You are posting your progress. You are sharing what you're learning with others. Many of you posted links back here which, of course, made me feel extra grateful.
But this is the coolest noticing of all. We are becoming a community of meditators. Which is what I had hoped would happen. And, you are reaching out to one another offering advice, sharing your hearts, showing compassion.
We are now 4 days into the Challenge, still in the "honeymoon phase." We are over 60 members strong (double WOW!), excited about what we are doing and staying faithful to our unfolding practice. Let's continue to share what we are doing. Let's notice how we are benefitting from doing meditation and share that. Do you feel it too? How our responses are supporting one another?
But if you are having trouble, feeling stuck or frustrated in any way, please let me (us) know. I have meditation experts—real teachers— waiting in the wings here, ready to help. Ask a question. Do so in your comment or send me a private e-mail through the Contact Box at my website.
One is Lisa, Mommy Mystic. She is a meditation teacher in S. Ca. and the Buddhism Editor for Bella Online. The other is Mari Gayatri Stein, an author, cartoonist, yoga and meditation teacher from Oregon. Each were trained in different traditions. Each has a wealth of knowledge and compassionate presence, so ask away!
Today, I'd like to offer you another practice for your Meditation Toolbox.
As a writer, when I'm feeling stuck, I often use writing prompts. These are quotes, passages from books, poems, and more which jumpstart my creative process. They also help me focus, which is one of the primary techniques (and purposes) of meditation.
There are many methods we can use to help our mind focus—with resulting inner calm, clarity, stillness. One of my favorites is to use a prayer form, Lectio Divina.
Lectio Divina is rooted in the Christian tradition and is translated as "divine reading." It is a way of reading and meditating (praying) upon scripture (spiritual writings). It allows one to sink more deeply into silence and experience "communion with the Divine." Bringing one's attention to a word or passage in this way can corral wild mind, as well. (See yesterday's post).
Very simply, Lectio Divina works like this:
The passage is read aloud. We breathe and access inner quiet. We let the passage "speak" to our hearts. A little time passes. The passage is read again. Now a particular word or phrase may be making itself known to us, speaking to us, urging us deeper. Traditionally, this process is done 3 times. Reading, resting. We settle into stillness a little more each time. We open ourselves to the Spirit; we plug into God, if you will. We allow Sacred Wisdom to come through ...
I maintain that Lectio Divina can be done with any form of devotional literature, and I often begin my morning with a bit of reading from one of many wisdom sources. I sit with the words and let them wash over me. In time, I become more and more quiet, allowing the wise words of others to speak to my soul. The poetry of Rumi is a favorite, as are Hafez or Tagore. Stillness, inner space, arrives.
I invite you to explore this meditative practice and see where it leads you.
Today, may stillness be yours ...
Blessings for peace,
Jan
Read on ...
From Where I Sit — Day 4, My Meditation Experience
Yesterday, I did 2 guided meditations. One in the late afternoon, one at night. Each was shared by participants in the Challenge, and they were wonderful. Here is one, and here is the other. Thank you friends for sharing these!
Before bed, I took out my prayer beads, a beautiful mala made for me by my friend, Laura. I began to "pray" on each bead, naming and blessing a dear loved one in my life—one bead, one name. (This is a technique I received from my teacher...) I only got about halfway around the beads and my husband came in to go to bed. I vowed to continue today.
This morning I listened to "Tibetan Meditation Music" by Nawang Khechog before writing this post. I breathed and listened. This brought inner calm.
Recommended Resources:
Wildmind's Meditation News Feed sends newsworthy articles about meditation in all of its aspects to your Inbox. I love it. Today's article was especially good on how meditation has been proven to aid people with depression. Click here to read more.
Inspiration:
Studying and learning can be likened to obtaining good medicine for one's illness from a great doctor. Meditation can be likened to consuming the medicine in order to transform the illness. If the medicine is not taken into our system, then no matter how wonderful it is, it will not cure the illness. Likewise, a spiritual practitioner must ultimately engage in a daily meditation practice in order to embody the spiritual essence learned from his or her master. To meditate means to get into the daily habit of practicing universal love and compassion, wisdom, single-pointed awareness, and other spiritual values. As a result of this constant spiritual familiarization, the individual will become more peaceful, loving, compassionate, and wise over time.
~Nawang Khechog, Musician and Spiritual Guide





42 comments:
I have found with depression, when it's really bad, that the form of the meditation is really important.
For me, just sitting and focusing on breath (in the PAST, again, during really really bad periods), was enough to help me SPIRAL DOWNWARD.
As depression's main weapon is our own minds, I have found there can be TOO much looking at the mind. Like it feeds it in a bad way.
That being said, I have found that meditations that utilize mantras or prayers of any kind are extraordinarily helpful.
The mantra or prayer acts as an Antidote or a rewriting of bad code, creating healthy synaptic pathways.
And of course, my favorite form of meditation for depression is moving and sweating. REALLY sweating. But I'll write about that more for Jan and the readers of this beautiful space at a future date! :)
I'm in.
Thank you so. xo
http://thedreamingpress.typepad.com
Hi! Thanking you so much for hosting your 28 day challenge! Very excited to join in...even though I am a tad late to the "commit to sit" party - I plan on participating wholeheartedly!
Just happy to join such a positive community & I look forward to the inspiration you will all offer! Thank you Jan!
Deb
Christine,
Thank you lovely one for this clarity! Only someone who has gone through depression as you have would know...and be able to speak with an expert's heart on this. Bless you! I will hope that any who read this post and have struggled with depression will align themselves with the sort of meditation that is healing for them. Wonderful, my heart is happy knowing this...
Hi Jan,
I just want to say I don't really feel the "honeymoon phase" yet. So, if this is easy, then I better buckle tightly:)
I am off work today, so went to my "comfort beach". Where I meet God. Did my run. Basked in the warmth of the sun, beauty of the hills, magnificence of the ocean, ran at water's edge in the sand...let my senses all be rejuvenated on the beach that I love. When I got to a tough spot, I asked God to meet me. He did/He always does. That has been my form of meditation--God and nature and I running on this beach, so I was glad to be on it this morning. I always leave with resolution over some issues I bring and a sense of peace.
That was my "own way" today, but I truly feel I needed it to recenter. Thank you.
Gillian,
Welcome! May your time here be soul-satisfying. Glad to have you.
Deb and Joe,
Welcome to you two, too! Never too late to begin again. Happy to have you with us. Breathe on...
Ok, ok, I'm in! I've been stalking this site for days - I'm finally going to jump in. Thank you!
Cheers,
Rochelle
Rochelle,
Welcome! I am so glad you have taken the plunge. :-) You will find a warm and loving community here. Be well, breathe...
I'm in!!
-Alexandra K Sheckler
Jan,
Could you tell me more about your prayer beads?
Also, I am excited to say that this challange has really moved me and I found a meditation class right in my home town. They offer this class free, twice a month and I am going to my first one this evening. What perfect timing.
Jan I too read sacred texts and allow them to become inspiration for yoga and jewish spirituality classes and guided meditations. I love this idea of Lectio Davina- really sitting with the words and allowing them to wash over us. This is a new approach to me...I will surely be trying it out with my chevruta (spiritual friend/study partner) the next time we work together...she will totally dig this!!!! Beads are not part of my culture either so I love your description of one bead one name one blessing for a dear one. I am learning so much from you today!!!
I also want to comment on this phenomenon of sacred community we are growing here together because of your vision!!! (smiling and sighing)...It is just well, phenomenal...we are all blessed and blessing each other, inviting peace worldwide in this sukkat shlomecha (shelter of peace)together with your compassionate guidance.
gentle steps dear one,
Laura
Jan, I love this idea of Lectio Divina, and applying it to any text we like...I was thinking there are so many poets I could do this with too, many not traditionally considered 'spiritual', i.e. nature poetry and the like...and I love this idea of letting certain words arise and using them as a kind of mantra...this was a new idea for me, so thank you!
Just wondering if you are planning to write up any chakra or kundalini meditation methods? If not, perhaps I'll do a corresponding piece on my site at some point this month...very exciting what is happening here...
I found the guided meditation from your "other" link was great. That made me feel like I had my daily meditation even though it was not my usual 30 minutes. Then, I listened to some clips from the Nawang Khechog, tibetan music and that was wonderful. I never tried to meditate in front of the computer screen before but it worked wonders! thanks for all your info!
I like this suggestion too. I haven't done this consciously, although I am drawn, as you know, to quotes that have significance & depth and a very few poems have the power to take me somewhere peaceful. I'm thinking, in particular, of Robert Frost's Stopping at a Wood on a Snowy Evening. I must memorize that one again....
I may have taken this one step further, having recently had a tattoo applied to my wrist that references a specific bible reference that's significant to me. It effectively acts as a reminder to me and brings me back to centre at a glance.
Blessings,
Carolynn
I have never heard of Lectio Divina, but it sounds wonderful. I love reading Rumi and other poets, and why not let their words become prayer, truth, and the beauty of what is? Thanks, Jan for the introduction. I'll let you know how it goes.
I needed to listen to a guided meditation while driving to work, as I didn't sit last night or this morning. Tara Brach's, 'Invoking Loving Presence in the Face of Difficulty' guided meditation works wonders when I need more compassion.
Having gone through post partum depression, and feeling bits of it even now, it helps to reconnect with whatever thing that reminds you of your own loveliness: poetry, exercise, a favorite hobby, guided meditations, and now...
Lectio!
Jan - reading this reminded me of a site I used to love when I leaned more into christian mysticism than now...it really is quite lovely. Here is the link:
http://sacredspace.ie/
I'm so glad to find your meditation challenge at a time when I want to strengthen my practice. Thanks for leaving the participant roll open to those of us who have made our way here a few days into the new year!
I have done Lectio Divina as a form of meditation; my most focused time was during a 4-day silent retreat that I did last March. This is one of the most contemplative forms of prayer that I've ever experienced.
Today I finished "The Sky Begins At Your Feet" by Caryn Mirriam-Goldberg and This was my meditation for today. What a powerful personal journey she has written! Very inspirational!
Now I'm going to email Caryn and express my gratitude for all that she has taught me today, because we are a community here.
Not sure this one is up my alley...but I will give it a try.
I did have a good day today...10 minutes straight without interruption...woo hoo!
I personally like visualizations. Today, I began my meditation by grounding my energy. I placed an apache tear (a protective and grounding crystal) in my left hand and visualized being surrounded in white light. I laid down in shavasana. I imagined being under a huge tree with a big heavy purple blanket over me. I focused on my breathing and sensing the tension in my body. I realized that the space between my eyes was very tight. Like I was frowning. So I paid attention to that and relaxed that area. I did that throughout my body. The meditation was wonderful and the minutes flew by.
I am glad that I made time for this today...this morning was insane with errands and meetings.
I am beginning to welcome these moments in my day.
I agree with Christine about thinking too much. My mind is my best friend and my deadliest enemy! :-D
I chose meditation in motion again yesterday in the form of Kundalini, and I chose a very third-chakra-centered practice as I have a meeting coming up at my daughter's school and my energy was lagging. However, I think I charged it up a little too much; I was a little "tetchy" today!
I couldn't settle myself until I was in forced confinement (known as my car in the middle school parking lot, waiting to retrieve my son). I get there early so I'm not stuck on the heavily traveled road in front of the school. I put in Layne Redmond's "Chanting The Chakras," hit Track 3, closed my eyes, put my hands in front of my heart in lotus mudra and chanted along with the CD. It really helped. If anyone saw me, I can only imagine what they thought!
Alexandra,
Welcome, may you find peace of mind here. :-)
Mazar,
This is wonderful news! I am very happy for you that you have found a local "Sangha" to do meditation with. As for your beads question, I will be posting more on that shortly. Can you stay tuned? Or in the meantime visit this site: http://kimberlywinston.wordpress.com/. Kimberly was a guest here and has a fabulous book on praying with beads. Her site is a treasure trove of information.
Laura,
It DOES seem like there is much here for you to share with your spiritual friend and adapt to Judaism. Enjoy!
I sense, as you do, that we are definitely blessing one another by being here and sharing our stories. I love it.
Joy,
Your "God connection" day sounds fabulous and what better setting to connect with the Divine but at the water's edge. May you continue to find and honor your own special way to tend to the holy within you. :-)
Lisa, (MM)
Well a purist might not agree with me about applying Lectio to all literature, but, as you know, I am a liberal gal and believe we each are here to create a spiritual life of our making. :-) I am glad that this contemplative practice resonated with you.
And I would love it if you would write about a kundalini or chakra meditation, either here or at your site and we can link. Let's talk!
Liz (Cherokeefox),
How lovely that you explored some of the resources I mentioned. :-) I am glad that you touched your heart and served you well...
Carolynn,
I know by visiting your blog that quotes do inspire you. Perhaps taking them to Lectio will enhance the process. And what, I wonder, was the passage you had tatooed on you? If you want to share that is. Was it "Be still...." That one? Just curious. :-)
Mermaid,
Stay tuned for another guided meditation tomorrow. :-) They do open us to ease and gentleness within ourselves. And, yes, remembering our loveliness. (I love that poem by Galway Kinnell.) I am glad that the Brach recording was healing for you. I do enjoy her work so much. Her voice is stunning.
Twila,
I appreciate you reminding me of this site. I used to visit it long ago too. Thank you!
Susan,
You are most welcome and we are happy to have you onboard. That is what I am seeking too, to strengthen my sitting practice. Though I admit I have been wandering a bit since the Challenge started and having fun exploring old and new forms of meditation. :-) I still would like to formally sit more....
I'm in.
Hi Jan,
Yesterday I added a mid afternoon meditation. I'm writing and working on a talk I'm giving to Hospice in MI last week. It just wasn't flowing...guess what! The ended came right to me and I quickly wrote it down. Ta da!
Hi Jan - I'm still here and doing my new form of meditation practice. I call it 'taking in the view' (with my wind chimes).
It is interestng to read Christine Claire's comments. I also used mantra meditation to pull myself out of depression - and it became my regular practice. There is something about it that points the mind in a more positive drection and stops the 'paralysis' associated with depression.
But it is good to be using these new methods.
When I was reading your post today my heart lifted and I was thinking - 'Yes, that's what I do - with Rumi's poems' and then I read your mention of Rumi! I also use the Tao te Ching to meditate on - quite profound.
I have been having a lot of fun meditating to Tom Kenyon's Pineal Gland Dimensional Attunement Recording which is free to download at the following address:
http://tomkenyon.com/sound-gifts
It activates one's third eye and takes one on a unique cosmic ride.
I'm in - a bit late but I'm in. Thanks heaps.
Davine
http://53buddhas.blogspot.com
Julie,
Thanks for your testimony to the power of Lectio Divina to calm and center us. :-) Thrilled you liked Caryn's book. I was so privileged to have here. Isn't she the bravest woman, and I loved her humor that carries her through the most challenging times. Be well!
Caroline,
Hooray! Your comment is another testimony--this time to the power of staying faithful to something. You have chosen visualizations as your meditation form; now you are starting to feel the benefits -- including actually looking forward to it. Your time yesterday sounds quite magical....
Linnea,
You know what I am loving most about your meditation journey? You are listening to your heart. You are honoring your inner wisdom and leaning into what you are hearing. Then you go with it. Truly, congratulations on that.
I am a firm believer that, if we can listen deeply, we will each find our way. Your way may not be my way, nor is it meant to be--one size does not fit all! (Though I do love Layne Redmond. :-) May we each continue to honor our truest selves in this way....
Jan!
I'm in! Please add me to the list.
Love,
Sandi
MNomGirl,
Welcome! A pleasure to have you!
Tess,
Oh, the benefits of meditation. Especially enhanced creativity! I am happy to hear your story. :-) Good luck on the talk. :-) Dress warm when you visit. It's really cold here. xo
Stoneweaver,
It sounds like things are going well for you. Congrats! Nice to know you found meditation helpful, like Christine, for meditation...and that devotional reading touches your heart. :-) Everything belongs...
Bern,
Thank you for this. I have enjoyed Tom Kenyon's work for years and am now glad to share him with others through your thoughtful response. Sounds like a wonderful ride!
Davine,
Thrilled you are here. Just read through the days' previous posts and take some deep breaths. Be well!
Sandi,
You, as well, my friend. Glad you are be-ing and breathing with us. :-)
Jan, thank you so much for introducing Lectio Divina. This is new to me, but I felt immediately drawn to it. The idea feels very familiar to me, and I have no idea why. I've often read scripture and sacred texts, I just never knew this could be a meditative practice!
Joni,
Glad it resonated. I wonder if Lectio feels familiar to you because it is a sacred practice found in all the world's religious traditions—just goes by a different name. In general it is praying or meditating with scripture - even study, some call it. It does open up new pathways of listening. xo
I like this technique of reading and meditating, on a passage. There is something sacred about three times... This will be enlightening in so many ways. Love and Light, Nina P
Nina,
I hope have luck with this. I find this practice very centering and very gratifying. It is so calming to read the wise words of others and let them just sink in deeper with the help of our breath. Enjoy! I really appreciate your faithfulness thus far. Thank you!
WOW! I should have read this before I sat this morning. I have used chants or gathas when I meditate and find it very helpful. This morning was not easy, to say the least. Frustrated describes it well!
April,
Well now you have this nice little tool in your toolbox. It's especially nice when things are bumpy and the mind is resistant. Breathe on with ease!
I felt like I was able to grab some peace amidst the hubbub of a family car trip. I'm enjoying learning about the variation of mediations. When I began looking into mediation several months ago, I was overwhelmed by the amount of information available and at a loss for where to start. This challenge is helping me take the first few steps and I'm suddenly looking forward to the journey.
Did not meditate at home today...I had so many errands to do. But did about 10 minutes in my car in the parking lot of a shopping center, when I was too early for an appointment! :)
Had a good session at the center tonight though...we were 8 present....
Simonne,
Glad to hear about your ability to be flexible. 10 minutes in the car or wherever you are is very good. :-)
I have used Lectio Divina at retreats (for myself)and also in my ministry of "prayer companion" for others in their spiritual journey. Always effective. There is also Visio Divina (praying with art, pictures)again very effective.
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