Day 7: Meditation Challenge - Calling In the Sacred
Welcome, to my 28-Meditation Challenge.
If you have joined us late, that is just fine. If you'd like to "officially" join in, simply leave a comment here that says, "I'm in!" and I will add you to the Challenge Roster. Or, send me an e-mail through the Contact Box at my website: awakenedliving.com. You may want to catch up by reading the previous posts. We are glad you are here!Each day we come here, even if we have not meditated as we'd hoped, we begin again.
Start where you are ...
Today is Saturday or Sunday, depending on where you are in the world. And for many people, these days are Sabbath days. A special time to put aside our labors, rest, connect with our loved ones, and commune with self and Spirit.
I wonder. In terms of meditation, do you consider your unfolding meditation practice to be "sacred"? Is it part of a set of religious beliefs or spiritual practices?
For me, it is. As I've stated here, my meditation practice is sourced in the breath—which is a manifestation of Spirit. I posted on this on Day 2 of the Challenge. I stop and connect with my breath throughout my day, so quite often I do feel as if I am communing with the Divine when I am breathing consciously.
My other meditation practice is metta—a Buddhist form of lovingkindness meditation. I have written much about metta on this blog and will post on it more in the next few weeks. (For now, see Resources below.)
Whatever form of meditation you choose, no matter what spiritual tradition(s) you embrace, are you aware that there are millions of others like yourself doing the same thing—or something different? Yet, it's all meditation.
Lisa Erickson, creator of the blog Mommy Mystic, is a meditation teacher as well as the Buddhism Editor at Bella Online. She penned an enlightening piece for her blog, "Meditation Within ALL the World's Religions." She began:
"Many people associate meditation with Far Eastern religions like Buddhism and Hinduism, and don’t realize that there are also many forms of Judeo-Christian meditation, as well as meditations from other faiths. Below is an overview of meditation as it is generally viewed within each major religion, and links to resources ..."
For example, "In Hinduism, meditation is considered part of yoga practice...
In Kabbalah, often called Jewish mysticism, a form of meditation called ‘hitbonenut’, which involves contemplating a concept or light itself ...
The Sufis within Islam incorporate both energy center and devotional meditation to merge with the ‘beloved divine’ responsible for life itself ..."
As a former teacher of World Religions and, now, an Interfaith Spiritual Director/Mentor, I thrill at the thought of interfaith dialogue and understanding. My highest hope is that we will truly accept one another, no matter what spiritual path we choose. "One river, many wells," as Matthew Fox wrote. "Conversion" is not in my vocabulary. We are One, each expressing the Divine in her or his unique way.
So, today, in honor of the Sabbath, I invite you to read the rest of Lisa's wonderful article and open your heart to a new understanding of how we are, indeed, One—especially in terms of meditation as a spiritual practice. Click here to read more.
This is one of my favorites:
"In the morning when you awake,
breathe in peace, breathe out love.
At the market, on the street,
breathe in peace, breathe out love.
Among friends and even strangers,
breathe in peace, breathe out love.
In the afternoon, walking or sitting,
breathe in love, breathe out joy.
In the evening before retiring,
breathe in joy, breathe out thanks."
This day, may you connect with the Sacred within you. Believe, breathe and be well!
And, as always, I welcome your thoughts ... especially about how you are doing with this Challenge.
Blessings,
Jan
Read on ...
From Where I Sit — Day 7, My Meditation Experience
Yesterday I took many meditative moments throughout the day, to sit, and listen and breathe. In the evening, I listened to Day 2 of the Sit-a-Long with Jundo. What fun! I also "sat" after that for an additional 5 minutes.
Recommended Resources:
Since last April, I have been penning "Meditation Mondays" here at this blog. If you are looking for more types of meditative practices to explore, visit the archives and you will find plenty there to quench your palate. Here is one of my favorite Meditation Monday posts. It is a metta practice. Click here and enjoy!
Inspiration:
What do we mean when we speak of a truly compassionate kindness? Compassion is essentially concern for others' welfare—their happiness and their suffering. Others wish to avoid misery as much as we do. So a compassionate person feels concerned when others are miserable and develops a positive intention to free them from it.
~His Holiness, the Dalai Lama, from Stages of Meditation




16 comments:
Thank you Jan.
Metta is a wonderful practice.
Often, when I have felt deep despair or depression, I have extended loving kindness. I usually just touched on loved ones and benefactors, before I fell asleep. Some nights, I could not feel into any real love or compassion for myself. I would start by first extending loving kindness to my dog, Handy, (and great teacher) who died 8 years ago. " Wherever you are, in what ever form,Handy, may you be happy healthy at peace..." Then extend to myself. It always worked . I could transfer that feeling of love to myself. Love never dies. I am very grateful- Loving kindness and my Shamatha practice have been transforming .
Yesterday was a super day for me. I had the house to myself for 2 hours and spent 20 minutes meditating. I did the breathing in goodness and love and exhaling negativity. I love that. It felt really really good. I am really enjoying this "challenge' and it is becoming less challenging. ;)
There was a comment yesterday that I really related to. The woman wondered about the purpose meditation, since she is so mindful throughout the day. Stopping to watch a spider. Being mindful when doing dishes...etc. Isn't that a form of meditation?
I really relate to that. I do try to stop every once in a while and just sit or "be" for 5 mins. But sometimes I can't...so then I try to focus on the task at the moment. And being fully present in that moment....which I think is a form of meditation. I do that folding laundry...just breathing and folding. Not thinking or worrying. Just doing only that task.
Would love your thoughts...
Jan. I'm a little a late but I'm in. Just reading today's post made me sit back and reflect on the day. I will catch up later today so that I can be on track with everyone. Thanks for doing this. Sometimes we need to be accountable to someone or feel like we're part of something and this ...this is good!!
Lisa,
You are most welcome. I am so happy to have your well-crafted article here as a resource for people. Great idea, too, of how you are using Ingrid's Joy Fortunes. Love it!
Karen,
Your story of how you practiced metta with your dog, then yourself, is just precious. Metta is a beautiful flexible practice. That is why it is my favorite. Blessings!
Caroline,
So good to hear that you are enjoying this time with YOU, "dropping in."
Good question about mindfulness and how that relates to meditation. Here is a link about the forms of meditation. It should clear up any confusion. http://www.meditation-techniques-guide.com/mindful-meditation.html
Yes, what you are doing sounds like mindfulness, which is a form of meditation—also called Insight meditation (Vipassana). Like you, I engage mindfulness throughout the day. It is my primary form of meditation.
The other type of meditation (which I have referred to most often here is "sitting,") is concentration meditation. It encourages us to focus on a single something for the purpose of training the mind. It is very good for wandering minds, which I have. My "commit to sit" challenge was primarily geared at people who wanted to learn to sit, and develop concentration, like me. In time, this concentration can lead to "empty mind." What some might call bliss. Ahhhh.....
However, I've tried to present a number of forms of meditation here for people to explore.... I hope this helps. And I hope I haven't confused people too much. Perhaps I shall create a post around this to clear up any mystery.
Thank you....
many heart felt sighs...
smiles.
Do I consider my fledgling practice sacred? No. Not yet, anyway. In fact, a month ago I wouldn't have signed up at all for this challenge. I've been very apathetic about religion and spirituality for many years now and only recently have felt the ice encasing my heart beginning to melt.
I have read about Metta in your articles before so, tonight I will try this.
I had an idea come to me upon waking yesterday morning. It was 2 words (made up words) that didn't mean anything to me. So, I said to myself "What is that?" Almost immediately the answer came to me. It basically was the title or general idea for a story or book. I feel it was given to me to write a poem or children's book about. It was early so I got up & wrote the words down.
Do you think this is part of "hitbonenut", the chochmah? I read briefly about it a few minutes ago so, I don't much.
Hi Jan.
Thank you for your loving response yesterday on my comment about the purpose of deliberate meditation. I think my aversion comes from the dishonesty in religion (as I mentioned once before) and I think it is time to let that go.
Any so called sacred practice that I think takes me away from daily doing, I look at with suspicion.
I have regarded these practices as a pill so for the rest of the day I can be frantic or selfish because my meditation/religion pill will compensate.
Pay the church and your sins will be washed by them kind of scenario.
I have seen that in the past with spiritual and religious people. They practice spirituality / religion at a certain time of the day, they speak the lingo but their way of being for the rest of the day does NOT reflect it. So I have made it a point to regard my daily be-ing and do-ing as sacred rather than seperate my life in two, doing daily life mindlessly and devoting only certain times to specific spiritual or religious practice.
However I am reading yours and other people's experiences here and it has made me wonder why you are all so keen on it.
Am I something not seeing or missing?
You all are very honest and some of you talk openly about the seperateness of knowing and doing.
Thanks to this I get to see that I need to let my thoughts go, they are based on past experiences and holding these memories are not serving me.
I am continuing my pondering and once again Jan I appreciate our dialogue.
And hey Lisa, lovely to see you here today.
Love Wilma
The take on conversion I like, never thought of it that way.
I do think that compassion is the way to go, and it can be as simple as inwardly breathing well wishes to those in need. Sometimes the best way to help people is to let them find their own way.
Peace, Jan
Hi Jan - an interesting post. I must add one more type of meditation - Christian meditation. I was impressed when my mother-in-law (now deceased) described to me her practice of meditation. She was a devoted Christian and used the word 'Maranatha' (which means 'Come Lord') in repetition like a mantra. Apparetly the word is one of the earliest christian prayers. Once again the unity of human truth and spirituality is demonstrated!
Yesterday I was on a walk - had to make an early start so knew I would not be able to do my usual meditation. So instead I practised 'meditation in movement' I told hubby I didn't want to chat for the next 10 minutes or so.... and as I walked I let my mind focus solely on moving my body, being in the moment. It was kind of Zen like.
Ellen,
Heart felt sighs are wonderful. Blessings!
Rochelle,
Reading what you have just shared brings feelings of great joy that you are here, willing to open your heart in this way. I am honored that you feel you may be able to do so in this place, in this community....May you be at ease.
Liz,
I am happy to hear that you are willing to give metta a try. Here is a link to a you tube video with Sylvia Boorstein, "the Queen of Metta" as I fondly call her (along with Sharon Salzberg) teaching the technique. Enjoy!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RK49Wyy_6Bk&feature=PlayList&p=3E782C2FB15DBA25&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=104
As for the revelation of a title, let's check with Laura, our resident Jewish mystic! I'll e her...
Wilma,
I will be posting here very soon some info that addresses some of your (and others) concerns about meditation and its relationship to mindfulness, so stay tuned. Dialogue is good, healing is even better.
I stay committed to the fact that mindfulness is the way that I live. Meditation is the practice that allows me to deepen my experience of all of life as sacred. It fosters, more than anything, complete openheartedness and receptivity -- to myself, to others, to life as it presents itself.
I am glad that you are still pondering. Be well!
love the meditation monday series. it's similar to my monday moment of zen series. mondays can sometimes be so stressful that we forget to breath. love that you are making a conscious effort to change that. hugs!!
Jannie,
I agree that sometimes the most compassionate path is allowing someone to go where they need to go. Letting go has many benefits. And compassion to self through simple conscious breathing is so powerful. That may be my most restorative practice. Breathe on!
Stoneweaver,
Thank you for sharing this form of Christian meditation. I hope to be able to introduce Centering Prayer, another form of meditation from early Christian times. Love that you did walking meditation. (I'll be introducing that for sure!) Isn't it amazing how just bringing awareness to the body and breath through movement centers one? I am continually reminded that simple practices are the most powerful...
Melita,
I am glad you are enjoying the Meditation Mondays. I do enjoy creating them too. When I read that Monday morning is the most common time for people to have heart attacks, I was guided to post these on Mondays. (I actually had a friend who died in this way, in the shower, getting ready to go to a very stressful job, leaving a young wife and baby. Sad...) May we all breathe easier.
I really like what you said about thinking about all the other people out there practicing (and I found you via Lisa at MysticMommy, so it's great to see her here!).
When I am sitting at home alone, I sometimes imagine my sangha (the small group I sit with twice a month) surrounding me. I also imagine all the people in the world who are meditating right now at the same I am... It is definitely inspiring and helps feed my practice at home.
Stacy,
Welcome! What you describe is so very lovely and I am glad that you are able to call upon your sangha in your mind, in your heart, and bring them to your sitting. Just this thought invites me in new ways to expand my own practice...
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